Witness to Love
Accompanying Engaged Couples to and through their Wedding
The Diocese of Orange highly recommends that parishes use the marriage formation program Witness to Love. Witness to Love is a virtues-based, Catechumenate model of marriage renewal and preparation that integrates modern principles of psychology and the virtues to help couples facilitate an authentic dialogue about their relationship. What makes Witness to Love unique is that the engaged couple chooses their own mentor couple. This is a couple they both admire and see as a source of faith formation. This mentor couple gives them a concrete connection and integration into the parish. Through the sharing of the mentor couples’ own marriage journey, the engaged couple inherits a “lifeline” of support in their commitment to Jesus and His Church.
Please keep in mind that parishes do not need to send mentor couples to be trained since engaged couples are being invited to choose their own mentors. Instead, pastors should send the people from their marriage formation teams who are going to assist the priests in implementing this program in the parish. For guidelines regarding marriage prep coordinators, please click here for a Marriage Prep Coordinator Description.
In Witness to Love, engaged couples are encouraged to select a mentor or sponsor couple to walk with them on their preparation journey. The goal of this one-on-one contact is much like it is in RCIA: to form a parish-based friendship with the engaged couple that bears witness to the Sacrament of Matrimony in its lived reality. Through loving, encouraging and listening to the engaged couple, the sponsor couple also welcomes them anew into a living relationship with Jesus. The sponsor couple should meet with the engaged couple several times in a more relaxed and social setting, e.g., in their homes, and should also, as appropriate, follow up with them after the wedding.
Currently in the Diocese of Orange, San Antonio de Padua Church in Anaheim Hills has been fruitfully running Witness to Love since February 2018. Deacon Russ and Jody Millspaugh have been leading the effort at that parish and are excited to share our local “success story” to encourage more parishes in our diocese to adopt Witness to Love as part of their marriage formation.
For further questions, please contact Linda Ji, Director for Family Life at firstname.lastname@example.org or 714.282.4203
Marriage Formation Renewal 05-08-2021 by Linda Ji