Stress and Anxiety

The patron saint of stressed and anxious individuals is St. Joseph.

“If even the smallest things are beyond your control, why are you anxious about the rest?” – Luke 12:26


If you are anxious, depressed, feel miserable about life, or have chronic medical symptoms, there is hope for feeling better. These symptoms can be traced to the fast-pace of modern living and chronic stress. By learning a few new skills, understanding what stress really is and where it’s hidden in your life, you can increase your resilience to mental and physical illness.

10 Stress Relievers from

1. Exercise. “Run, do some yoga, punch a bag at the gym,” advises Charles Goodstein, MD, clinical professor of psychiatry at New York University School of Medicine in New York City and president of the Psychoanalytic Association of New York. Exercise is a way to manage stress that doesn’t have to add to your financial woes. For example, a 20-minute walk or jog around your block can yield up to 12 hours of improved mood. The main thing is to find a physical activity that you enjoy, whether it’s dancing or fly fishing.

2.  Socialize. Spending time with friends and family who give you a sense of belonging, purpose, and fun may provide all the stress relief you need.

3.  Write. Dedicating a period of time every day to write about a situation that is bothering you. It may reduce tension and give you stress relief for the rest of the day. Keeping a journal can also help you solve problems or find positive angles amongst the stressors.

4. Laugh. Laughter really is the best medicine. It is proven to lower tension, and at the same time, improves blood flow and the health of your heart. Rent a funny movie or hang out with that wannabe-comedian pal, and forget about your worries for a while.

5. Take care of yourself. When tension spikes, it can be tempting to put yourself last — but prioritizing healthy eating, physical activity, relationships, and sleep is necessary if you want to avoid making your stress worse.

6. Get some fresh air. If you are cooped up inside all day, take a few minutes to get outside and see the sun. A little time in the great outdoors can improve your mood and help you relax.

7. Be kind to yourself. Think about positive affirmations daily. Thinking negative thoughts only makes you feel bad and will increase stress. Tell yourself you are doing a good job, and believe it!

8. Meditate. Practice deep breathing and meditation exercises daily when you feel tension rising.

9. Be thankful. Showing thanks for your family, friends, and loved ones and being thankful for the positive aspects of your life has a calming affect. Not only does it give you perspective, it makes other people feel good too.

10. Make a change. Sometimes the best way to obtain stress relief is to remove your source of tension. “For example, if you are in a job working at a certain pace in an environment that is objectively painful because of your boss, coworkers, and so on, and you’re doing it because you can earn 10 percent more money than doing something else, you could calculate that you might be better off doing something else,” says Dr. Goodstein.


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